The struggle of dating as a single mom is so real! We all want a solid, loving relationship with a partner who enhances our lives (we've already got kids to take care of, not looking for any man children here). But for so many single mothers the frustrations are the same - dating is too exhausting, and the good men are few and far between.
We're here to tell you that you can have a positive online dating experience, and you can find a guy with substance. It all takes a little patience, yes, maybe a bit of luck, and a better dating site.
Here are our 3 favorites:
1. EliteSingles
Elite Singles is one of the most popular dating sites around, but still manages to offer a uniquely personalized experience.
The site’s compatibility model takes a psychological approach to matching, and is based on your answers to a wide range of questions.
These questions cover everything from the personal to the general and, of course, there are the ever important ones about children.
And when you filter like this from the outset, you’ll save a lot of time later on, knowing you won’t be matched with anyone who doesn’t want kids or isn’t ready for a family. Because who has time for that?
2. Zoosk
Here’s a dating site that shows that just because you’re a mom doesn’t mean you can’t still have fun.
With a fresh interface that lets you swipe, search and match to your heart’s content, Zoosk is a great option for anyone looking to connect. Think of it as a grown-up (but not boring) dating app - it’s got the fun aspect of swiping through profiles, but the more legit aspect of people actually wanting to date.
Casual dates, long-term relationships, marriage: you name it. Whatever you want (for you and your child!), you’re sure to find it here.
3. SilverSingles
Single mom but not in your 30s or 40s? Don’t fret - and definitely don’t go joining dating apps and sites meant for people a decade younger than you. SilverSingles is the site you should try.
A dating community meant especially for singles 50+, SilverSingles is a great option for busy single moms serious about finding someone to love.
The site uses a matchmaking algorithm that’s completely powered by the answers that users provide to their personality quiz. That means the matches you get sent will be people you’ll actually have things in common with, and not just random men in your 25-mile radius.
